For Chafarri Williams, motherhood has always been her greatest motivation. As a parent of two daughters, she has worked to create stability, opportunity, and a sense of home for her family. Her journey has included service to her country, personal loss, and moments of uncertainty, yet through each season she has remained determined to move forward.
Born in Liberia and raised in North Carolina, Chafarri grew up navigating questions about identity and belonging. She was adopted as a young child and learned early how to adapt, persevere, and search for her place in the world. Those early experiences instilled within her independence and a strong sense of responsibility.
Her father, a Vietnam veteran and Purple Heart recipient, played a significant role in her life. His discipline and integrity influenced her decision to join the U.S Navy, where she proudly served as a corpsman. Chafarri continued her commitment through the U.S. Navy Reserve, ultimately dedicating 20 years to military service.
Serving her country became a defining part of her identity. The military offered structure, purpose, and community that gave her a solid foundation and reinforced values that continue to guide her today.
“I was truly honored to be able to serve the country that allowed me to be a citizen. It was my way of saying thank you.”
Like many individuals navigating major life transitions, Chafarri faced challenges following her divorce. She worked hard to provide for her daughters while also managing financial pressures and unexpected setbacks. Those challenges led to a period of homelessness, an experience she describes as one of the most difficult moments in her life.
“I remember sitting with my kids right there next to me, tears running down my face, thinking, how did I get here?”
With the support of her family, community members, and veteran resources, Chafarri rebuilt stability for herself and her children. Still, years later, unexpected financial strain, job loss, and rising costs created another difficult period. Determined not to give up, she reached out for support again, this time connecting with Volunteers of America Chesapeake & Carolinas (VOACC) through The Staff Sergeant Parker Gordon Fox (SSG Fox) Suicide Prevention Program.
The program provided Chafarri with assistance that helped prevent eviction and maintain stable housing during a period of financial hardship. Beyond financial support, the experience reminded her that asking for help can be an important step forward.
“I had to humble myself and be able to accept help and ask for help… not be embarrassed, not be ashamed that I needed that help.”
Chafarri credits the SSG Fox Suicide Prevention Program with helping her regain stability and build a secure future for herself and her family. Her story reflects the reality that life can include unexpected challenges, but support, persistence, and community can make a meaningful difference.
“It’s empowering when an organization says this isn’t a handout – this is a hand up. It gives you empowerment to keep moving forward.”
Today, Chafarri continues to focus on growth, stability, and creating opportunities for her daughters. Her journey is a reminder that asking for help is not a sign of weakness; it can be a powerful step toward lasting change.
Through programs like the SSG Fox Suicide Prevention Program, VOACC continues to inspire self-reliance, dignity, and hope across the communities we serve.
To learn more about The Staff Sergeant Parker Gordon Fox (SSG Fox) Suicide Prevention Program, visit www.voachesapeake.org/ssgfox.